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03-05-2017, 07:15 PM
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ill definitely be looking for more room and family friendly. I'm still trying to come to terms with getting out of it for a while, but life's priorities are different right now.
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03-06-2017, 08:38 AM
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03-16-2017, 11:11 PM
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My girlfriend of 15 years just moved out. She isn't happy anymore. We haven't been fighting, It's something going on in her head, and she's trying to figure herself out. No kids, I wish we would have got married and had them. We finally talked the other day about some things, without her yelling. She was so hurt over the years of disappointment, because of not asking to marry her. She wanted nothing more than to be married to me, I don't know why lol. Honestly, if I could go back I'd marry her and payed more attention to her. She's my best friend, a very simple girl, low maintenance. I miss her unbelievably.
I hope you have a great marriage. Boats and cars are just possessions, there's all kinds of them out there. There are only so many once in a lifetime women.
Sorry if I'm off topic, but it helps to talk about it, and don't make the mistakes I did.
I hope you have a great marriage. Boats and cars are just possessions, there's all kinds of them out there. There are only so many once in a lifetime women.
Sorry if I'm off topic, but it helps to talk about it, and don't make the mistakes I did.
03-17-2017, 12:19 AM
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My girlfriend of 15 years just moved out. She isn't happy anymore. We haven't been fighting, It's something going on in her head, and she's trying to figure herself out. No kids, I wish we would have got married and had them. We finally talked the other day about some things, without her yelling. She was so hurt over the years of disappointment, because of not asking to marry her. She wanted nothing more than to be married to me, I don't know why lol. Honestly, if I could go back I'd marry her and payed more attention to her. She's my best friend, a very simple girl, low maintenance. I miss her unbelievably.
I hope you have a great marriage. Boats and cars are just possessions, there's all kinds of them out there. There are only so many once in a lifetime women.
Sorry if I'm off topic, but it helps to talk about it, and don't make the mistakes I did.
I hope you have a great marriage. Boats and cars are just possessions, there's all kinds of them out there. There are only so many once in a lifetime women.
Sorry if I'm off topic, but it helps to talk about it, and don't make the mistakes I did.
Sorry to hear after 15 years it's over, I bet you feel like crap right now and it will probably get worse before it gets better. Take comfort in your friends and family, they'll all be on your side regardless of whether you make good decisions or bad ones. Keep busy, work as much as possible and go boating any chance you get to take your mind off things.
We've all been there and somehow, we all pull through ok but it can take time.
Cheers mate!
Jon.
Edit: Just to smash my post to pieces, you could do what Mseuro suggested below.......
I don't know anything about the circumstances but people close to you will still support you either way. Take solace in their comfort.
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03-17-2017, 12:50 AM
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If there is a chance you should fight for her and show her you mean to be with her as long as she will have you. We all screw up, it's how we deal with the aftermath that determines our direction in life. I know if it were not for my wife I would not be where I am at now. Good luck.
