I went through the same thing. Mine was with a new boat that was already rigged with all new Imco drive stuff. It is really my first NEW boat (still waiting in CA for delivery, hopefully ready in the next week

) so I did tons and tons of reading.
My boat has more hp and tq but with the levels you want you're in the same situation. Go arneson and fork out the money right away. Otherwise you will bleed it out slowly through rebuilds, replacements, and tows. At best it seems to be a crapshoot even with the best of the two, the B-max and Max Machine. If you truly intend to keep your boat for a long time, which it seems you do, there is only one choice. Shame on Mercury for not producing a viable product
the potential list of advantages.
-More speed vs bravo
-better efficiency + better gas mileage
-piece of mind by virtue of unbreakable reliability
-cool rooster tail.
-a company and a contact (rik) to help stand behind the
product if there is a problem