Thrill is taking care of this for me because he's much better at yelling at people on the phone. He told the guy yesterday to either ship it and eat the cost or to refund my money. The guy said he had to check with his boss and has not called back nor answered the phone when Tony calls. He's sold enough stuff that he should know better.
I don't buy a ton of stuff on ebay but all of my feedback is incredibly good. I don't want anything to tarnish that but I won't be incredibly upset either.
Hopefully this guy will get back to us soon - otherwise I'm filing a complaint with eBay most likely.
And no Ironman - this is not about the bachelorette party I put on at PIB this weekend.