I'm no expert, but unless your Dad is david Copperfield, your story and these pitcures don't jive. (Are you old enough to know what 'jive' is?)
i have a little experience with talking out of one's league. Right now, you are way out of your league. It'd be a good idea to not inject more of your knowledge and perception at this time. Rright now, you're sounding more like Lightning McQueen "turn right to go left."
Or you can continue arguing your points and keep entertaining the rest of us.