Here goes:
Gary Danko's (French)(you won't be able to get a table sit at bar and enjoy one of the best meals you will have in your life)
Boulevard (American)
Masa's (French)
Slanted Door (Thai)
Ebisu (Best Sushi)
Bistro Jeanty(French)
Yank Sing (Chinese/Dim Sum)
House of Prime Rib (Guess)
Restaurants along Union Street (from Gough street to Fillmore St)
aren't Gay. Usually good sites!
Any Taqueria in the Mission District.
Don't go to Castro Street if you aren't Gay.
And to end the night Irish Coffee at the Buena Vista. Just down the street from Gary Danko.
This should keep you busy...buuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrppppppppp!!