Look how much better your doing without her.....two posts, and only one mispelled word!!! This could be a whole new "readable" OSO.

Just kiddin....i always try to remain distant friends with the Ex's. You never know when you'll need a resource that they have.

I can't wait for Sy to put in his ancient 2 cents on this one.

Puder, I think you'll be friends as long as you don't get another girlfriend.

Do you want to marry her? If not, move on. Can you imagine having another serious relationship and having her around as a close friend? That won't work at all.

Tell her your seeing someone else and see how she reacts.

Never,ever, fall victim to the "new and improved" bull#@&*. History WILL repeat itself, perhaps at a time when you REALLY need her. Listen to the experienced gentelmen on OSO....get some distance from her (force yourself) and clear your head man!

ron, yes i did.

and no she would not work as a friend if i got into another serious relationship.

Blow her off!!!!!:mad:

Velocity Mike damm I think I will start using Fedex

Puder, I think you should look into your heart to find the answer. If she's really a special person to you I think you'll find that you'll want to keep a relationship with her, even if it's just being there when she needs a special friend, someone who has an understanding of how she feels. And you never know, she may find in her heart that she needs you more than she thought.

Phantom Chaos..........:eek: :eek: :eek: WOW Are you a chick ? That was Profound.

Puder, I have to say I agree with the majority on here....... Don't burn the bridge, Just don't hang out on it either. You said yourself it wouldn't work as a couple, it wouldn't work if you got into another realationship....... It wouldn't work...........
Be the Man, be respectful, but be UNAVAILABLE.
Tell her you are interested in someone you just started seeing......
GOOD LUCK!!!

LUCIDIDEE2

DAMN YOU ARE GOOD...SOUNDS LIKE MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP

Possibly even a hook up with one of her friends!;)