That was a huge part of it Reed. Some people can do rehab and it takes. Some just have to lose everything before the reality hits. Either way, they have to want it. No two ways about that. Like I said, there are lots of ugly stories that could be shared. Even now I think about them and wonder what kind of vacation my brain was on to have stayed that long.
Thrill, I truly hope your friend finds something that works for him and his family. It is a long hard road to recovery and there is no "cure" but they can make it work if Dad wants it.