"MNFB", that is a question for the ages. When I met my wife she was going through a tough divorce. And she smoked. She told me that she wanted to quit. Stupidily, I believed her. Well that was almost four years ago now. The last thing my mother said on this earth was asking my stepfather to light her a cigarette. She died of liver cancer. This smoking issue is becoming a huge issue between us. She keeps telling me, "the time isn't right" or "there's too much stress" or some other lame excuse. Fact is, she doesn't want to. That's fine. But I'll be damned if I'm going to go through it. My birthday is at the end of the month. I will have one request. Quit smoking and be with me or keep smoking and be without me. Her choice.