Jay, no one has the words to really comfort you except you are in all of our thoughts. I'm just up the road in Nokomis, (next to Venice/north) and we just missed that chit by about 25/30 miles. I was scared chitless watching the storm's progress that morning.
We are doing a lot of remodeling on our house, have lots of animals, but also have a clean spare bedroom your welcome to if need be.
You SURVIVED, that is the main thing. Everything else will eventually fall into place.
PM me if there is anything I can do. Cell # is 941-544-1375. You DO have many friends down here, you just have not met them yet. Russ