I would be interested to know what it is that your friends said that made you change your stance on the issue.
As for the moderation over there. I would not mind so much if the rules were applied evenly across everyone. We were called "A-holes" yesterday by a member, something that I am fairly sure that non of us have done. I also have a problem with being punished for what you say on this site then they moderate you for it over there. The two sites have nothing to do with one anohter. That is like Don saying you went to a porno site so I am not going to let you on mine any more. WHY!! The fact that we loose our minds because they post so many lies over there, well I am sure you understand. It is almost as bad as me telling you that your screen name is not Matawanakee and then you saying yes it is and me saying no it is not. Nothing that they have put forth says anything about the facts of the issue.