Yep, you can order the parts from Merc. I did the same thing on my last boat, but used it for my tabs. So same thing as you want: single switch in throttle to control both drives/tabs, and also keeping the 2 dash switches for independent operation. Your throttle handle is already hollow,( just peel of the red sticker) to accept the switch. Just have to drill an acess hole to run the wires out of there.
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Throttle Knob - Trim ?