ok.....you recent bachlors....
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ok.....you recent bachlors....
Tell me how your getting over your breakup.. I thought I was fine, it's been 3 days, but I am headed down hill. I try to keep my mind on something else always, but the memories seem to slip into my thoughts.. I replaced all her pictures with pics of the boats and trucks. I keep my self busy with projects in the barn to pass the time. I knew this was best for me, was to let her go... I am trying to chase my dream like my grandfather told me and she was standing in the way... but i feel guilty for doing it... I am even talkin to a new girl and i still keep thinkin about the little lady. I find myself sittin on here chating on OSO alot and not careing about school much, this is the last class and i am done, so i don't want to screw this up. How are you guy's getting through it..
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Travis
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Hang in there traviss, things will get better with time,Think with your Head, not your heart.
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Hey Man,
Been there several times. First of all there is no magic pill or potion or brew, it's time...time and more time. In a few more days you will sleep better , then in a few weeks you won't be thinking about her all 18 waking hours and so on.
It helps to stay active, go out with friends, do what you enjoy. Winter is tough because on the more limited activities, also it helps to get back in the game, a new interest or chase sure helps, even though it won't cure the hurt right away. Any female companionship helps even if it's just a good friend, a dinner, move, some darts, whatever it all helps. Being alone is the worst, no distractions, if your working on your boat or a motor or what ever have a friend or 2 over, you'll talk about boats, motors, some other broad with big boobs, how much school, your boss or you job sucks, what ever. But if you sit around alone you will dwell on the past.
I feel your pain dude, it probably won't be the last unless you are real lucky and it never is any easier.
Hang in there! Others will come to your aid!
Been there several times. First of all there is no magic pill or potion or brew, it's time...time and more time. In a few more days you will sleep better , then in a few weeks you won't be thinking about her all 18 waking hours and so on.
It helps to stay active, go out with friends, do what you enjoy. Winter is tough because on the more limited activities, also it helps to get back in the game, a new interest or chase sure helps, even though it won't cure the hurt right away. Any female companionship helps even if it's just a good friend, a dinner, move, some darts, whatever it all helps. Being alone is the worst, no distractions, if your working on your boat or a motor or what ever have a friend or 2 over, you'll talk about boats, motors, some other broad with big boobs, how much school, your boss or you job sucks, what ever. But if you sit around alone you will dwell on the past.
I feel your pain dude, it probably won't be the last unless you are real lucky and it never is any easier.
Hang in there! Others will come to your aid!
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Now I see what's goin on.......okay I understand.......Cool
Well to the point at hand.....What you are dealing with is the difficult part....
This just a sign you actually have a heart...so keep that in mind....
But how to deal withit I surely don't know
But what I do know is.....don't lose focus of the point.......and I think in your case that would be not getting in trouble and concentrating on school......am I right??
The best cure for a broken heart and lonleiness is .....I hate to say this....another girl
but it seems to always be the wrong time to find another one.........
Trust me buddy I KNOW this tugs and tugs at ya.........now try it when she calls everyday and tells you she loves you.....
That will F with ya......big time
Time will heal all wounds my friend.....
Well to the point at hand.....What you are dealing with is the difficult part....
This just a sign you actually have a heart...so keep that in mind....
But how to deal withit I surely don't know
But what I do know is.....don't lose focus of the point.......and I think in your case that would be not getting in trouble and concentrating on school......am I right??
The best cure for a broken heart and lonleiness is .....I hate to say this....another girl
but it seems to always be the wrong time to find another one.........
Trust me buddy I KNOW this tugs and tugs at ya.........now try it when she calls everyday and tells you she loves you.....
That will F with ya......big time
Time will heal all wounds my friend.....