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berns29scarab 05-27-2009 10:23 AM

Wtf Is Next !!! Wwwwtf !!
 
WTF NEXT !! MY FAMILY JUST CANT WIN 28 days ago my mother passed away after loosing a battle with ovarian cancer AND NOW...my father went in this AM for a routine colonoscopy and the found a malignent tumor in his upper intestine, catscan tomorrow and want to schedule him for surgery next week....SOMEBODY HELP US PLEASE !!

DareDevil 05-27-2009 10:27 AM

I wish i could help u,,,but i guess all i can do is tell u to hang in there.
I will pray for your best !!!

FunHome 05-27-2009 10:27 AM

Man, hang in there and be strong for your family.

glassdave 05-27-2009 10:33 AM

So sorry Bern, will continue with thoughts and prayers.

Dean Ferry 05-27-2009 11:10 AM

Bern,
We'll keep your dad in our prayers. Cancer SUCKS!
Dean

AB From Windsor 05-27-2009 11:14 AM

So sorry to hear about your father. Will pray for him and your family.

21eagle 05-27-2009 11:36 AM

sorry
 
so sorry to hear im sure all will go well in our prayers Chris

waterheater 05-27-2009 11:44 AM

So sorry Bern, we will keep him in our thoughts and prayers.

georges 05-27-2009 11:50 AM

You and yours are in our thoughts Bern.
I know what you are going through, we lost both of our mothers, an aunt, a cousin and 2 dear friends within a period of 6 months... all from illnesses/natural causes.
Hang in there.

bulletbob 05-27-2009 11:51 AM

Try to be strong for your family. I know exactly what you are going through.Been through it with my Mother, Father and Grandfather. My prayers will be with you and your family.

Shanghied Again 05-27-2009 11:51 AM

Bernie I am so sorry for you and your family "I can relate" 1982 was the start of a down hill trend and it was a nightmare! June 30 1982 my father was robbed and murderd. November 1982 my Grandfather died from a massive stroke, 1983 My mother was found to have cancer and passed away 3 months later, My uncle her twin brother same cancer passed 6 months later. Then my sister had a massive brain tumor "removed" then 1 year later crew back and removed again! Hopefully like my sister your Dad has a good ending its been over 20 years now and she is free and clear. My Heart goe's out to you brother. I pray for the best.

DriverofDonzi 05-27-2009 12:02 PM

Man, that sucks! You and your family are in my prayers.

Chri

Stormrider 05-27-2009 12:13 PM

So sorry bern. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

lucky strike 05-27-2009 01:46 PM

Hang in there Bern. Prayers sent to the big guy above 4 ya.

wigginout 05-27-2009 02:38 PM

Lost my Father last week and with what I've been through the past 3 years, as some know, they say it will make you stronger. I believe only the strong survive but wounded. Life is hard, and when you become older, it becomes harder. Praying for you, your family, and your Father.

Jassman 05-27-2009 03:20 PM

try to relax.....I feel your pain. Ive done more praying lately then ever, and will do so for your family. Take Care..

dykstra 05-27-2009 03:38 PM

Thoughts and prayers, hang in there buddy. Dave

SOX 05-27-2009 06:38 PM

Hang in there Bernie. i will keep your family in my prayers.

JayFan 05-27-2009 07:02 PM

I guess things like that put "boating" in perspective.... hope things get better....

fatdaddy 05-28-2009 09:43 PM

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I have had the most stressful 9 days of my life. My wife, age 36, underwent an emergency hysterectomy on 5/19, barely made it out of recovery, got an infection, couldn't sleep for 8 days b/c of pain but finally, yesterday saw the Dr. changed the meds and got an all clear from an oncologist. Has been peacefully sleeping for 36 hrs. Keep the faith.

LubeJobs42 05-28-2009 09:45 PM

Very sorry to hear! It seems like thats always how it happens. My thoughts are with you guys. I hope your dad comes out of this ok.

ufix1 05-29-2009 06:43 AM

AM really sorry for you. This series of events makes you fell ****ed up.

berns29scarab 06-30-2009 08:23 AM

thanks all. i got him back up to NJ and in for a consult with Fox Chase Cancer Center in Philadelphia PA...he went in for surgery 6/26 they removed the tumor and approx 7-8 inches of his upper intestine. The surgery went well and no bag was needed. Now waiting on pathology results to see what the deal is with chemo.

Wobble 06-30-2009 10:29 AM

I think about your situation often. Best you can do is make sure he sticks to the recommended treatment.

Watching my son go through six rounds of level 5 chemo was tough. He is 18 months in remission now and the discomfort is mostly forgotten.

Be strong.

PARADOX 06-30-2009 10:43 AM


Originally Posted by berns29scarab (Post 2899893)
thanks all. i got him back up to NJ and in for a consult with Fox Chase Cancer Center in Philadelphia PA...he went in for surgery 6/26 they removed the tumor and approx 7-8 inches of his upper intestine. The surgery went well and no bag was needed. Now waiting on pathology results to see what the deal is with chemo.

Best of luck to all of you. Be strong.
I moved Mom and DAD to NJ a few months ago too, due to health issues.
We are here for you bro.

Fountain38 06-30-2009 11:55 AM

Keep the faith brother and all will be fine. I will keep you iand your family in my Prayers.

ScottB 06-30-2009 12:14 PM

We are praying for you and your family Bern

lucky strike 06-30-2009 12:23 PM

Keep the faith Bern........All will be good for Popps.

RollWithIt 06-30-2009 01:14 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.. Hopefully the surgery went well

berns29scarab 07-20-2009 02:25 PM

thank you all VERY VERY much...pops is feeling better, hoping his appetite comes back. the labs came back and they staged him at 3B...siiighe. the lymph nodes they removed were also "involved" and he is to start chemo the 3rd or 4th week of august. he has an appointment 7/30 with the oncologist to discuss the treatment and to find out how long n how strong of a cocktail he'll be receiving...dejavu really has him spooked. was 2 days from the year anniversary my mother was diagnosed....

R Addiction 07-20-2009 02:52 PM

You and your family are in our thoughts Bernie. Be strong.

amazing1 07-20-2009 07:13 PM

our thoughts and prayers are with you hang in there.


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