Hi Ken - thanks for your reply.

Well I met him on a dating site online and we were together for about 3 months. He ended up stealing money from me from my debit card and racked up my credit card without my knowledge before he left. He used it to pay for the motel he had been staying at for a few weeks here in Ajax... He had a whole story about having headaches and so he couldn't work because he worked with computers so it made the headaches worse ... and he was going to get cat scans and stuff because he possibly had brain cancer... He also said he was in negotiations to buy the Casey's here in Ajax. He also stole my computer / laptop. I think I have tracked him down now - living in Burlington and working in Hamilton. Just waiting for the police to call me back and actually DO something...

He had used a fake name with me but in calling around to the places where he used my credit card I found his real last name which led me to you and offshoreonly and an article from the Kingston paper that says he was in jail last year for possesson of stolen property (and being a criminal at large I think)...

He left town suddenly - because he had used my credit card and stolen from my bank account - and I realized later he left the day I was due to get my credit card statement. Very well planned out **** he was doing. I felt really bad about all of this at first but I feel better now knowing that he's like a professional con artist and it wasn't just me being stupid... He sent me a text a few days later saying he was sorry and then a few days later an email suicide letter... I called his sister-in-law (that I was able to track down on-line) when I got the letter and she said just ignore it, they get calls from girl periodically... so this is what he does. A total scum bag.

What did he do to you guys and what was the outcome? I'd like to pass on anything I can to the police... and I guess I just want / need to know... Was there any police involvement with you guys? I've been in contact with a guy name #### from offshoreonly that told me they ended up getting their money back because his Dad cut them a cheque (for like $20 or $30 K) because they had threatened to come up here and find him and hurt him I guess... they have a LOT of money... I have not contacted his parents because I figured what is the point?