Bankruptcy Attorney
 

If anyone knows of a good bankruptcy attorney in the Orange/Riverside County area, I would appreciate their phone number. The f^@king c*^t I was married to has soaked me for literally evey penny I had in the bank, and continues to try to bleed me to death. I know of no other way out. Gonna lose the boat too. :mad:

If it sounds like I'm bitter towards her, you're very perceptive. It always amazes me how someone you once loved, and claims they loved you, can turn 180 degrees on you and no longer give a f^@k what they do to you.

Ex-wives...Ya surely don't love them or need them, but you also can't take them shark fishing and not bring them back.

Im with ya on the 180 thing.
Luckily mine didnt involve children or longevity...MY money was pretty much insulated but I bought a house and put it both our names (why not we were married). I must have liked the house more than she because she stopped comming home and drinking to excess is an understatment. Anyhow she was still able to get 1/2 the house. Fauker!!
Even with good buy and great realestate gains in northern NJ its gonna be a while before break even.
Very sorry to hear your situation. I dont quite get the courts. :mad:

a little late advice, next time try a prepun, or cash in a saftey depaosit, or your boat and stuff in your moms name, wake up and smell the legal realities of life.

My wife and i havd a prenup, whats mine is mine whats hers is hers and we hold each other harmless for any claims for posessions, what we own jointly is didvided 50 - 50

we have three checking accounts, hers, mine, and a joint account
(ours) we pay our joint owned bills, insurance, taxes and groceries, dining out and utilities etc. with, whats she does with her individual money and assests is her business, what i do with mine is mine.

We split our bills on a pro rated basis, I make more money than she does so I pay 60% of our joint bills she pays 40%, that way we each have ample personal fianaces left.

If we want to buy something or take a vacatiion we split it 50 - 50

sure simplifies life,

Gee thanks for the warm fuzzy feelings! :mad: If I want to know how I'm gonna get f^@ked over, I'd just ask my wife.

A guy I work with had his wife run off with a neighbor. Now he pays some ungodly amount to the slut monthly. After finding out she was having an in-ground pool put in at HIS house he took her back to court. Verdict.... He has to pay $200.00 more a month. :mad: :mad:

Hide everything, then in 60 days see a lawyer.

I had one!
You are very right HOWEVER. Buy with your money and put it in both your names and you F'ed. Now Im going to imagine your response to be, Dahhh. Well explain that to her at the closing. "Im buying a house and as my wife you can stay here but its really all mine". If I had known she would be such a ***** I would have been more of a dick but thats not me. You would think a judge would look at it and say WTF. She had a huge financial insentive to make the marrige fail.
My buddies wife ran up all his credit cards after their separation. It was clearly maliciuos and he still got stuck with the bill.
Im not bitter.....it was worth every penny....but it still sucks.
I feel for anyone going through it, IT SUCKS.
I feel for the next one that wants to get married to me.... Ill just have to convince her I think my lawyer is a jerk too ;)

My Ex tried to get half of my boat but it was bought and paid for before we got married-so she got none of it. We had just bought a new house so it didn't have much equity. She also got two credit cards and ran them way up and her laywer says to me that I will be paying those bills also. I said NOT--- The cards were only in her name and she never bought anything for me with them so she was stuck with the bills. Boy did that piss her off. She came into the marrage litterally with the clothes on her back and she was driving my new car. She left with her new car that she had to make the payments on and little else. I put up with her cheating on me for three years and one day I just had enough and called my laywer and served her. She couldn't believe it.

Friend of mine had a business and was getting a divorce from his cheating wife and boy did he get even. What he did was overestimate his quarterly taxes by $1,000,000 Then after he was divorsed he amended it and got the excess back. He was a very happy man. His wife never found out.

Gee, I guess all this goes to show you there is "COURTING" before AND after marriage:rolleyes: :D :D :D

Not to add to the chit you guys are going through, but if you are given or inherit say propery or a business after your married and then split does she get half of it too.

WILL:mad:

In most jurisdictions, property (both physical property and $$) that you inherit, are gifted, or brought into the marraige remain yours. If, however, you comingle these assets with hers, then you open the door to claims from her. If you can trace the source of funds for certain investments - i.e. you have a check written from your personal account - then you should keep the property in a divorce proceeding. All of this goes out the window if you title property jointly as most courts will deem joint titling a gift from you to her. Ain't that sweet.

If you are afraid of a prenup, then consider an inter vivos trust.

hey guys,goin thru it right now.....trouble is on her part,she has filed numerous false police and DV cases,and i mean numerous....for thousands all of them got dissmissed and dropped by the SA's office.....now her parents are funding what might have been a seriuos problem,problem is ,in all the hearings my lawyer had her admit that all was bougus,now my attorney has common knowledge of these events,and by chance last year I filed for divorce,but never prosecuted this.....now what i didnt know that her dumb arss attorney told mine,that becuase this is still sitting there,one, she cant file...two, it protects my investment houses and makes me soul owner....three,if she doesnt back off and do what I want were going to go to the SA's office and giving this info to them,and pester them till an arrest is made.....shell have to burn up mommys money in her defense against the state instead of f@#$$%ing with me....that was at lunch,well see what happens next......good luck!and like I was told, BE PREPARED

luckily mine was spayed and declawed when i met her, we try to keep emotions and fianances seperate and treat the financial end of marrage like a business, we have a spread shehet and budget on all monthly bills, etc

the bottom lie is it's hard to find a female who doesn't have that pycho ***** side to her

I don't think i would ever marry again if this one doesn't go the distance

I don't know a good reason to marry except to raise a family in the first place

Being in love isn't a good reason to marry, just a good reason to see each other (till you discover what a pycho ***** she really is)

All I can say is get a good attorney and show how she had melicious intent on planning and exicuting the whole thing

Nothing f_cks up your head and life like a divorce

Just remember it will pass with time and you can apply whats learned today to the future, your life isn't over but shure is F_cked up for the time being, I wish you luck

Get THE nastiest SOB attorney you can find, maybe a female attroney would look good in court to have a female go after her

guys....i feel your pain. which is exactly why i stay single

hang in there ...better days are coming.

Way too late for the nasty attorney. I had a paid consult with one of the best in the business out here (recommended by BCC). After paying the POS for an hour and a half of his time, and discussing every intimate detail of my pending divorce, I decide to retain him. I just had to work some extra overtime to save up the retainer fee. In the mean time, my ex goes behind my back and retains the POS!!! To make it worse, the a$$hole took her as a client. No he's sticking all the info I talked to him about so far up mine it's not even funny. :mad: :mad: :mad:

NEVER TRUST ANYTHING THAT CAN BLEED NON-STOP FOR FOUR DAYS AND NOT DIE! IT CANNOT BE HUMAN!!!

:( I think that would be conflict of interest especially after you paid for a consultation. If it is not illegal it is unethical and I would contact the bar association. :( :(

Lucky it is not Florida we have what is known as the No Fault Divorce! I heard this story from my Attorney while I was in divorce proceedings myself.

There was this guy He Had a Good job, Nice Home on the right Street and a couple Kids,
Anyway he comes home one day and his dearly beloved informs him out of the Blue NOW she wants a Divorce!

See she has made her plans over the Preceding months for her new life; the only thing left to do is inform her Husband .Now he gets mad and the yelling starts.

She to prearranged plan calls the Police! Remember this guy just had this Laid on Him!!
Police come take him away; and the Poor guy gets a Restraining order on him.

And if that is not enough Now to get anything of his from his former Home (that he Paid for )there must be a list submitted to his Attorney that is passed to her Attorney and maybe he gets his personal property! He does not go near the House !

He will pay Child/Spouse Support and Pay for the Home until the Kids are 18 or out of Collage, Her Car while now having the added expense of another place to live in Himself!

Gotta watch that one sleeping next to you She can be your worst enemy ever!
:mad:

I don't know how these women can live with themselve's!!!! I'd much rather walk away with nothing, than have anyone say " I took them for anything!!!"
YOU CAN ALL QUOTE ME...."I will never take ANYTHING that doesn't belong to me.....all's I want is my dignity!!!"

You NEVER REALLY KNOW a women until you meet her in COURT!!:eek: :) :cool:

Blueman is right HE cant do that!
you better have a cancelled check from the consult and a receipt

Re: Bankruptcy Attorney
 

Howard Kollitz...one of the best around....Sean

Conflict of Interest I really think you can have him taken off the case......

Oh man, I'd love to jump on this bandwagon and contribute to the bashing, but it appears you guys have covered my thoughts pretty much end to end. :) And my mother wants to know why I don't want to get married again?!?!? HA!!!

:D :D

Hey If I can do it again anyone can Iwas the true definition of the person Mama didn't want to meet:eek: :eek: :eek:

Sean:cool: :cool: :cool: