am i having a slow moment i want to attach a pic to a post and i cant figure out how?

You have to be a paying member.

Or you can upload you picture to a website like photobucket, Flickr, etc. and then post the img link.

Yup, a membership upgrade will let you attach pics directly and do other cool stuff like sell things and talk politics, yay! This site does allow you to attach pics via photobucket though and then you have big pretty pics like this one: