Saw this on another forum , does it look like the load is within the limits of the SUV

I would say ya, and still has room for a few more hundred pounds of $hit to spare.

Its not a boat, so a srw gas suv without eoh trailer brakes is fine.

Are those the safety chains I see dragging on the ground ?

I think the muffler is dragging on that thing. I think it just needs a couple counterweights on the front bumper to balance it out just like a tractor pull. Besides the weight in the front will make it handle like its on rails.

Just needs to balance the load

Maybe just crank the tongue jack down a little bit and get leveled out lol

Putting your mother in law in the back of the truck does not constitute airbags...

If he gets a flat front tire I don't think he will need a jack to install the spare so that's a bonus