Don't make the mistake of taking her back. My wife kicked me out and wiped out the bank accounts 2 summers ago. She said she did it for me and wanted to get counseling and she really loved me. I went back, things were good for a few months, knocked her up, started fighting again, now I'm stuck. It's cheaper to keep 'er.

Trader1

Dude, Take her giftsw back now get the cash, hit Miami or New Orleans for new years. As stated before you should check you credit cards and bank accounts. I know it sucks now but sounds like you got off pretty easy. Your lucky she didn't move you out while you were at work???:eek:

I had this happen 2x in under 2 years and one was my wife....... so next one I find won't beable to leave cause I have no job:D things always get better,,(or so I keep telling myself)

Too funny!

My first reaction "what a *****" then I came to my senses and said HOORAY!!!!!! More stuff for the boat..

I think I got the reason for all these woman leaving us.

Our boats are on the top of our priority list....


Dont sweat it dude. We've all been there once or twice (or more)
but we get over it. Theres plenty more where she came from.

Happy Holidays

Can I come too?

Remember, there is as good a fish in the sea as ever came out of it.

Definitely unpleasant, but at least you didn't have to help her carry her stuff out to her car.

Got two words for you...
 

Road Trip !!!!!!

Hang in there.:cool:

Consider it a blessing in disguise. Put it behind you and have a good holiday!!:D

You know you guys are all not nice. Cocktails don't always do the trick. Some times Love hurts. Have a heart.
:p I have been there. Not so recentley but it still hurts.

OH come on now. You sound like a woman (or are you).

Like i said before ..we have all been there. RELAX the pain goes away.

Alchohol just moves the process a little faster.

As said before, consider yourself lucky it was a girlfriend and not a wife.

Get it behind you, move on. You'll be giving this advice to some other buddy in a short time.

Kewl! How d ya manage that???

Really dude plan a trip skip town a week and ignore the hell out her!!! Never falter here, do not give in, do not call her!

Dude we'll be in the Keys for newyears come south;)

Smile all the way to the bank, think of all the money you just saved!. Hard times makes us all better people in the end.
B3

You will have many girl friends in life. This time there are no lawyers, cops or kids. Much cheeper than the other way. Good luck. Use the mechanical device you bought to attract women. Your offshore boat.

Look at the bright side, You did'nt have to carry out her chit!

She was'nt right for you anyway, go get another. :eureka:

That happen to me 20yrs ago then 6 mons later I meet my wife, better looking than the ex ,cooks better makes more cash than I do,shes a neat freak:) :) BUT she doesnt like to go for fast boat rides anymore:eek: :eek: :( O well no one's perfect :rolleyes: :rolleyes: or maybe it's the driver :crazy: :merry christmas, buy yourself something , and for get about her.:frog:

Pour yourself a double martini, go get a massage (happy ending optional) buy yourself some new duds, fly your ass to Miami, have Phil Lipship set you up with a new Gun, check your new boat and yourself in at the Marriot, put on those new duds, boat your ass to South Beach and see how much new trim you can cram in that new Cig, make another martini, call your x-old lady and thank her.


joey :p

I agree, go get another one. Dont let her back in Bro cause history will repeat itself. I had one do it and it was planned and schemed by all her friends. Live large is the best revenge.

You all are giving great advice! Everything was going great until she called on Sunday. Told me she would call yesterday but never heard from her. She is now trying to keep me at arms lenth? I am doing my best to see through it but she is making it hard. I want to thank all of you for you helpful insight! I'll keep you posted.

Hey man,
Don't do it!!!!!! Next time she calls just say "can't talk right now, gotta go"....then hang up...do this everytime she calls...Man I went thru this 2 years ago in Jan. She pulled this chit on me just like you are goin' through. It went on and on and on..one day she is all tore up..next conversation was what a looser I was..next call is "oh please let me come home."...These calls went on over a year until I finally said "don't call here any more."..Oh yes we were together almost 10 years before this all happens...Then I hear she is sleeping with her new neighbor where she moved to. Within 3 months she had slept with half the complex, including a so called buddy of mind....Here is the killer all this happened in a complex located on the same lake I live on so I knew her every move and she knew mine. I went out and bought a new Baja H2X and that really pissed her off. HAVE FUN WITH THIS !!!!!!!

I agree with srpbaer...

She hurt you man... Dont let her continue to mess with your head or come around at her leisure. Its only gonna happen again. And then its gonna get ugly. ie: restraining orders, violence, damage to the car/boat, broken windows, late night drunkin visits.

Why did she leave in the first place? Just before xmas? DUH!!!! someone else to spend it with. That probably fell through. So now she comes back to you .

BULL ****....MOVE ON BRO

By the way...

it never happened to me...lol

You are getting some good advice here. Don't give in. She made the move and is causing the pain. What do you owe her? Nothing! Like the reply above, when she calls, reply to her, "I can't talk right now. I'm busy with my new boat. Thanks for leaving. Wish you would have left sooner!:D "

Then, you'll feel better:hothead:

I've been pitched big time and I learned one thing regardless if you bum or enjoy the freedom it wont change the outcome at all so you might as we'll make the best and see what happens.

Go to the strip club with a couple buddies, that always helps.:D

There is a lot of firsthand experience on this board!
I have been married three times.
First one a huge mistake with a stripper :eek: . Yeah, it was fun for a while. My advice: Go and watch the show, but don't bring home the performers!!
Second was a hometown girl that was (is) a pathological liar and loves to sleep around:mad: She has major issues.
After having children with second wife, could not handle that situation any longer, divorced her and swore off of long term relationships. Three months later I had a conversation with a wonderufl girl I went to school with (she was my very 1st g/f in the fourth grade!!:D ). She was in a bad relationship at the time.
It turns out we are very similar in our tastes, our hobbies, everything! She is absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me!!:D :D
The moral of this long story: When things look their worst, they will most always get WAY better!!!

As others have said: DO NOT CAVE TO THIS B*TCH!!!!!!! Youwill feel the pain for the rest of your days until you finally give up and then it will cost a bunch of cash!! See No. 2 above.

Also, trust me that women can sense when you don't need/want them, and they will come running your way!!

This just happened to me...I woke up the Sunday morning, 1 week before Christmas ,she wanted to talk, I had meetings to get to, I said we could talk later, when I got home she was not there I tracked her down for lunch 2 days later and she said it was over, tried for 2 days to figure out what to fix and by the weekend she wanted me out.......It makes me smile at these other posts, Thanks.......

I know this sounds cruel........

But, it's time to shag her best girlfriend.:eek:

Hey man I have had the same thing happen to me with girlfriends, sometimes it was her and I left sometimes it was me, but things happen for a reason, **** I have been married and divorced twice, had a few live in girlfriends and after all this I think I might have found the best one yet, its hard at first, but you will find someone better, mark my words here,
Mark

Take it for what it is! A BIG gift, be happy she didnt take you for all the drama... Good Luck, and remember the bus schedule!

Sounds like another argument in favor of ''Rent vs Buy''.

LMAO!!!! :D :D :D

that sucks

OH dont forget to play the SHE DUMPED ME VIDEO GAME
DOWNLOAD HERE
http://home.att.net/~puzzele/dumped/thevideogame.htm

Just got rid of my "Hometown Girl" I did not know a women could be so heartless and be such a F*cking LIAR!! Sleeping around....Issues.....Sounds too goddamn familiar:hothead:

And then she swears up and down to God she doesn't lie to me!!

The thing that kills me the most is she blames sleeping with one of my friends on me:confused: She gives him her number at the bar one night and I find out about it and tell him not to call her and BOOM I'm the bad guy. The funny thing is the boyfriend before me (They went out for 5 years) my former best friend, is still paying all her bills (2002 Tahoe, Cell Phone, Credit Cards, etc....21 years old, Drunk Driving 2 weeks ago causes her to lose her job at the secretary of state that she had worked for 3 weeks, first job in over a year!!):eek:

I should have known better, since me and her started by sneaking around on my buddy... It goes to show you..

"THE SAME WAY YOU FOUND'EM, IS THE SAME WAY YOU'LL LOSE'EM"

OG:cool:

oh no

Just one question. How innocent were you?

I actually did something similar once, a long time ago. We lived together and split all the bills, he made more $$$ then me. He was a big time boozer amongst other things. Never had the $$$ for the rent and other things. Would get paid, and go straight to the go-go bar and just about blow his pay check. I stayed 2 years longer then I should have trying to help him with his problem. I had no choice but to leave, I was hurting myself more than anything.

I wish you the best of luck. Just don't play that game of going back and forth. It will be worse if you become bed buddies. Either work it, or get away.

Good point...
theres always two sides to the story. It doesnt matter whos fault it is. It sucks regardless.

GOOD LUCK
HAPPY NEW YEAR

Enough all ready
 

Ok you've had time to go get some strange by now, so your over her right, good, now send me her naked pics so we can all laugh at her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!