Girlfriend moved out while I was at work
 

Anyone have any advice? I had no idea this was happening.

My advice is HAVE A PARTY:D :D

THAT SUCKS DUDE.....at least it was a g/f and not a wife...

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth!

Man that totally sucks. Go out to a strip club, do some female bashing with your friends and try and enjoy it. Seems like it cought you out of the blue so I am sure you are bumming. Take your time and get better before your next relationship. Sorry to hear it man.

Jon

I got to agree with Nasty on this one, consider yourself lucky, it will hurt for a while but you'll recover. Go buy something form the boat, take your mind off things;)

Hang out with the buds.

best of luck man!

You have till summer to find a worthy one !!!!

And look on the bright side,,, she left BEFORE you gave her the Christmas gifts !!!!!!!!

Cheer up, and good luck with your next g/f that deserves you.

probally nothin that a little WOT in the boat cant fix,just be carefull!

Hey the ole Italian told me once Woman are like Busses one’s leaving and another is coming down the street.

In all sincerity the right lady helps you forget and get over the last!

Do not even try to figure them out; most females do not know what the hell they want themselves.

Well there you go my experience from three marriages (the boat business is hard on relationships)

Stuff happens, like I tell my son " Go out and kick the chick tree, after they all fall off pick the one you want". Each day unfolds, you have to tough it out and move on.

Good luck

Dude it will suck at first, but then when you get your bearings, consider yourself lucky. There is nothing like the taste of new kitty-kat. Like somebody else said before better a girlfriend than a wife, because you won't have to give up half. Head to the nearest Strip club, that will numb the pain for now.

lucky guy. most of us have to have big fights and lots of drama. sounds like you got out easy.

Thank you for all the great advice! This is the best site ever. Its time to get the boat! I am still in the state of shock. I had no idea she was unhappy.

Don't be too quick to blame yourself! She may have been unhappy, but maybe not because of you. I have ended relationships because I was not happy with myself, my job, where I was living, etc, etc. To pick up and leave is wrong, but sometimes people have to do things there own way. Life goes on, and time heals all wounds. It is nice to be able to focus just on yourself sometimes. Good Luck.

Sorry to hear especially at Christmas. Hopefully you have some good friends to help you get through the rough times. If not the board is very good company on those sleepless nights. Good luck and Merry Christmas.:)

Yup.....:D :D :D

first thing ! check your bank accounts. my ex-wife cleaned mine out then , when i was away she moved out. it all ended up in divorce court. i am still waiting on the ***** to pay me some of the money she stole from me. by court order she has to pay me. but i have not seen a dime. WHAT A TWISTED **** !

Take all of her Christmas presents back, get the cash, and make plans for the Miami Boat Show! I personally won't be there, but there are enough OSO members that will be there to show you a kick-ass time :D

Robert

If she just up and went than it is better she did it now and not when married or years into a relationship. This is just a sign that she is unstable and not the one for you. Just don't let her back in when she calls. You can talk but in no way cave in. This is what she wants and will then have "hand". This board will get you thru it so use the wisdom of experience.:D And go buy something like blowers for the boat or something else that will occupy your time.:D

hair balls........
 

No hair balls in the shower , plenty of hot water , never having to wait to go out - ladies night , spring time boating - hey bro you'll be fine - BH

Trader, That Sucks,, It happened to a friend of mine, she came home from work one day, and her Husband moved out while she was working. He told his wife, "it is not that I am unhappy with you, I am just happier with my girl friend" LOL See, it is not that she's unhappy with you.
Don't despair, The girl of your dreams will come your way, It might take a few touch and go's. believe me, I have been there, done that.

Philip:)

Trader... the SAME thing happened to me 4 years ago, but SHE TOOK EVERYTHING WITH HER!... Now THATS a surprise!... I knew we where having a little issue, but that came out of the blue. I found out through the grape vine that she was sleeping with her boss!... Hows them apples... But, I can say that my life has been ALOT better because of it!

Oh yeah.. one other thing... she was fired less than a year later! :D

GRUBOSS
 

A little bitter are we???? Same thing happened to me, never saw it, emptied out 3 accounts, and quite a good amount of cash that was in the house. The bank Accts were finally given back to me, but when I asked for the cash, the reply was, "What Cash? I didn't take any" :)

Philip;)

ouch...it must be for the better. Better now than in the future. Call the friends, spend some time with them. the board here will always be with you

My advice, count your blessings, and change the locks before she changes her mind and come back.

YEAH! GREAT IDEA!....Come on down and we will show you what REAL women look like.... can you say south beach? :D

I agree with not looking the gifthorse in the mouth. You know if you find someone else you'll miss the freedom. The grass is allways greener. try to enjoy the free time.
ITS PARTY TIME

So you got an early Christmas present!!!

Live, learn and love another. Take it as a blessing.

Now that's COOL!!!!!!:D :D

Take it like a man and stick to your guns, nobody likes dealing with this stuff, down right painful, but you are in good company, because we all go thru it at one time or another. Good luck, girls like her are a dime a dozen.......

Post all of your nude photos of her on this site. That would be good revenge.

Umm, if she is gone and out with no ties; you are LUCKY! Make plans for the Mid Atlantic OSO Winter Chill-Out; AND make plans to head for Miami in February. See this thread:

http://offshoreonly.com/forums/showt...0&pagenumber=1

I wish I could relate. I had the opposite problem.

My girlfriend moved IN when I was at work!!!! :p

Good luck!!! :D

WATCH YOUR MONEY....GIRLS LOVE TO TAKE ANYTHING THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH..

As Homer Simpson would say "THAT CAN BE CURED BY OUR GOOD FRIEND ALCOHOL" :p

Sean,

now thats funny :D !!!! but I'm sure it was a nice surprise

We're married now with two ankle biters. :D

Go find her best freind, and lay the wood to her!:p

While you're at it, check to see if any of your buddies are suddenly MIA.:mad:

Are you sure you didnt bury her in the basement ? A post like this on OSO could be a pretty good cover when she is reported missing ;)

Get your boat ready for summer. By then you will be ready to have some fun!! I know this because it hapened to me. Last summer was the best ever. All I can say is NEXT!! Here is your chance to improve on what you had At least you didn't have to help her get her s**t out>