Toss him out soon but not when his kid is there. You don't want it to get ugly in front of the kid, It's not his fault his dad is a dead beat.

You should tell him it's time to go before the holidays. Why ruin your own hoildays being pissed off. Hey why don't you start dating his ex. Maybe that'll piss him off and he'll leave. He is only using ya man.

It is not any of our "places" to be a baby-sitter. I'm new to the awareness of your situation, but have been the exact same place myself. Be respectful, but just tell him straight your reasons and why he has to go. The sooner the better for both of you.

HE'S STILL THERE?? put that ahole out, it's hard , but yo- gotta do it

Thats right!!!!!NOW

Gee, I bet you can already guess what I am going to say who cares if it is the holiday season, x-mas is a whole moth away. Maybe it will be more of an eye opener for him.

Chit dude, if you don't kick him out now, don't come back on here next week complaining about it.

Let us know how far he bounces.

Is this a de javu thing?

Seems like there was a thread just like this a while back.

OK. Its just me, isn't it.

Run down to the bar, drink lots of whiskey. Come back and tell him how you really feel.

LOL Dead on balls accurate.