the tab should say "instant email notification" in the edit options window within member control panel.

and you haven't added anything new to your computer.... Spam filter or a new Internet service? Anyway to put Offshoreonly in a white list on your e-mail?

Yup and yup .. Im not the greatest with outlook so maybe ive got to do something there ..but oso is the only site that ignoring me

do you use the block feature in outlook?
maybe you accidently put oso on it?

Ive seen a block sender in the address book .. but I cant find a list for that or a way to unblock ??

Ok thats cleared ..

its a long shot but what about your cookies

this is killing me .. why I dont realy know

What about my cookies

Yup im allowing all cookies ..and muffins