Keith, I completely understand what your asking/saying-for the guys reading this and thinking it's ok because tie-bar is helping, each ram has 2 hoses, a push and a pull, I have twin rams on my boat (single engine) and i have bled all 4 hoses (IF I remember correctly) the stbd ram pushing isn't the only thing making the port retract. Some singles only have one ram, it pushes and pulls 1 drive, on thisboat each drive should act just like a single ram , single engine boat IF the tie bar isn't there. Now, the tie bar definately helps balance things out and tie things together. Now one answer that was posted that sounds plausible is the fact they are all tee'd together with one manifold and the ram extending would have to have resistance or be fully extended before the opposite starts retracting, sounds believable, Smitty

I lost a tie bar on a twin outboard boat with hydraulic steering, somewhere along a 15 mile straight run. I did not know it till I had come off plane and tried to turn into the marina and my cowlings about smashed each other. Trying to dock that day was, we will say interesting.

Yes, you get it.

Also, you came up with a great way to explain it. People think they will work like a single on each side. But it definitely doesnt. Can I re-plumb it a different way so each piston is isolated somehow?

You'd be trying to steer each drive seperately. No way you'd keep them both in sync perfectly. Or at least using a tie bar I don't see it possible without going to a huge undertaking/expense. I'd think you'd be creating more problems trying to reinvent the wheel for that almost non likely chance of a tiebar falling off.
Just install a second tiebar. Problem solved.
I take it you are running full hyd steering, no inner bar

Yes, full hydraulic. Two tie bars wont help if a gimble breaks.

Thats what I am trying to avoid.

Keith, did you lock one in place or extend it all the way to see if what US1 Fountain says is true? Its plausible that being the retract and extend on both rams are teed together that one with least resistance would move with no load on it and the second would retract when the 1st is done using up all the oil flow. You could also simply look at your plumbing inside your transom, your port ram's extend hose WILL be teed into the stb rams retract hose and stbd extend supply hose will be teed to port retract hose, sorta a criss cross, if they were backwards your boat would not steer at all as they would just fight each other, take a lok and lets us know, Smitty