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brian41 02-20-2015 08:40 AM

How long do you wait before posting bad news?
 
Like the titles states how long is enough. Say you bought something from a OSO member, sent the check ($850.00) out on 1-17-2015, it gets cashed on 1-26-2015 and its 2-20-2015 and still no parts. You make contact 1 1/2 weeks ago via Email with a promise the items would be shipped that day but still no tracking # or parts. 2 days ago I try to contact again via phone message, PM from OSO, and Email with no response. I see this member has been on here since messaging him from his profile but still no response. I did make a much larger purchase from him 2 months ago and received those items within 10 days.

HyFive578 02-20-2015 08:44 AM

I'd say... times up...

vintage chromoly 02-20-2015 08:47 AM

That's slow shipping and poor correspondence for sure.
I'd be pissed too.
As for outing the guy...........
I'd call his cell one more time and if he doesn't make an effort to talk to you, I'd spill the beans.

jtbooten 02-20-2015 08:49 AM


Originally Posted by vintage chromoly (Post 4267751)
That's slow shipping and poor correspondence for sure.
I'd be pissed too.
As for outing the guy...........
I'd call his cell one more time and if he doesn't make an effort to talk to you, I'd spill the beans.

+1.
Maybe give him a day for him to run into this post also and then spill the beans.

bcfountain 02-20-2015 08:57 AM

call him out on here......that usely works.

Interceptor 02-20-2015 09:02 AM

Text him and suggest he checks the Beware & Stolen forum.

TomFTM 02-20-2015 09:34 AM

Is the part that u bought something radially available, or did it have to be taken off a boat (motor) that is outside or not able to get to the part because of the weather. That would be the only excuse for not sending it yet, but no response from email ,phone or text is BS. Communication is key in selling parts........ And shipping the item as soon as u get paid...

the deep 02-20-2015 10:09 AM

The lack of communication usually means only one thing and it ain't good .

brian41 02-20-2015 10:16 AM

Just got a E-mail from him that states "I shipped them yesterday" I will have a tracking # "later today"

the deep 02-20-2015 10:27 AM


Originally Posted by brian41 (Post 4267798)
Just got a E-mail from him that states "I shipped them yesterday" I will have a tracking # "later today"

If they shipped yesterday one could assume that's when the tracking numbers were assigned also . Something don't smell right to me . Hope I'm wrong .

Quick2500 02-20-2015 10:38 AM


Originally Posted by brian41 (Post 4267798)
Just got a E-mail from him that states "I shipped them yesterday" I will have a tracking # "later today"

Translation: He saw this thread and is now scrambling to get it shipped this afternoon.

Hopper 02-20-2015 10:49 AM

thats sux ballzzzz I wish these wads would stop selling products if they have no intention of shipping them...... we need to start lynch mobbing these people

brian41 02-20-2015 11:08 AM


Originally Posted by Quick2500 (Post 4267809)
Translation: He saw this thread and is now scrambling to get it shipped this afternoon.

My thoughts when I read the E-mail.

272bajadriver 02-20-2015 11:28 AM


Originally Posted by brian41 (Post 4267749)
Like the titles states how long is enough. Say you bought something from a OSO member, sent the check ($850.00) out on 1-17-2015, it gets cashed on 1-26-2015 and its 2-20-2015 and still no parts. You make contact 1 1/2 weeks ago via Email with a promise the items would be shipped that day but still no tracking # or parts. 2 days ago I try to contact again via phone message, PM from OSO, and Email with no response. I see this member has been on here since messaging him from his profile but still no response. I did make a much larger purchase from him 2 months ago and received those items within 10 days.

Brian I'd say it's been enough time. My view is he sure had time to cash the check so he must certainly have time to ship it. It shouldn't take a thread like this to get someone to send you something you paid for.

buck35 02-20-2015 11:35 AM

Hopefully now you're parts will be as described. The little bit I've bought in the swap shop have been better than, and shipped quick being I'm also a dinosaur with a check book. Good luck!

frickstyle 02-20-2015 11:49 AM

If someone is willing to send me monies before I ship them the part or they come to pick it up, I do everything I can to accommodate, that means shipping right away. Almost a month? I'd give him 24 hours after that email was sent, one last chance.

He is ruining it for the rest of us too. I took a big leap of faith last year on drives and such, ended up working out, but it was a toss up at the time. I also received payment for parts sight unseen, and I made sure I was available whenever was convenient for the buyer to get them parts, that means staying in touch. Poor etiquette at the least.

1989mach1 02-20-2015 11:52 AM

I say get the parts and then out him anyway name and contact information. ... people like that need to be tea baged by as many people as possible. ..... even if u get the parts u shouldnt have to wait. This is what makes me hesitate to buy parts on here

88242LS 02-20-2015 03:06 PM

I'd take care of OSO member before I paid my gas bill, my rep is more important to me then anything, especially amongst my peers who are always helping, taking a chance and trusting me, Ive sold on here before,, shipped within a hour of payment, I've bought on here and received the same, I'm not saying someone didn't forget or worked or had life get in the way, but a call upon payment received and every step in between is how i work, the nerves go both ways and I hate the them..

HyFive578 02-20-2015 03:39 PM

There always can be valid reasons why someone may not be able to ship immediately, stuff happens, but if you can't ship and you've taken the money, you have an obligation to communicate to the buyer why and give a reasonable ETA of when you will. Like I said earlier, times up. Now, I'd wait for your tracking number and parts and make a decision. No tracking number today = no more time...

As I've always said... when someone shows you who they are... believe them...

the deep 02-20-2015 03:45 PM


Originally Posted by HyFive578 (Post 4267949)
There always can be valid reasons why someone may not be able to ship immediately, stuff happens, but if you can't ship and you've taken the money, you have an obligation to communicate to the buyer why and give a reasonable ETA of when you will. Like I said earlier, times up. Now, I'd wait for your tracking number and parts and make a decision. No tracking number today = no more time...

As I've always said... when someone shows you who they are... believe them...

Big boatload of truth right here .

US1 Fountain 02-20-2015 06:34 PM

The tracking number should show the origination scan.

the deep 02-20-2015 06:39 PM

Some of what the Captain's dishing out would help cure this kinda chit .

http://youtu.be/452XjnaHr1A

Indy 02-20-2015 08:07 PM

Frisini?

akaboatman 02-22-2015 09:21 AM

Update?

1989mach1 02-22-2015 10:00 AM

I would say it is going alittle like this..... I haven't gotten the tracking number yet and he is now not ancering my calls again. But he did say it was shipped but lost the tracking number in a fire that he had to run into to save a puppy.

brian41 02-22-2015 10:05 AM


Originally Posted by 1989mach1 (Post 4268681)
I would say it is going alittle like this..... I haven't gotten the tracking number yet and he is now not ancering my calls again. But he did say it was shipped but lost the tracking number in a fire that he had to run into to save a puppy.

Pretty much how its going.....haven't got to the puppy in the fire part yet.

Indy 02-22-2015 10:16 AM

Pretty old routine here on OSO. Another spin is how many "death in the family" excuses have we seen in the past years? If I had a dime for every one I'd be in an OuterLimits.

j21black 02-23-2015 08:59 AM

Any word on the condition of the puppy?

Biggus 02-23-2015 09:01 AM

I sell a lot of motorcycles and parts on ebay. When you as a seller get paid and funds are clear, the merchandise no longer belongs to you. Stuff like this really sucks.

mike tkach 02-23-2015 09:27 AM

when i sell something as soon as the funds are cleared i ship the parts within two days.almost 30 days is three weeks to long.at this point it is time to let us know who this person is.i don,t want to buy from him and im sure nobody else does either if he can,t find the time to ship YOUR parts.

1989mach1 02-23-2015 09:41 AM


Originally Posted by j21black (Post 4269114)
Any word on the condition of the puppy?

he is doing good but not out of the woods yet that is why I haven't shipped the stuff yet..... im saying with the puppy to make shire he is ok I will get your parts out buy the end of the year.....


this dude needs an a$$ beating and teach him a lesion.... some one on here is in his back yard and needs to take care of this.

1989mach1 02-23-2015 09:45 AM

let him be a ohio islands boater..... we will take care of him for u .... let him try to tie up to me or one of my friends...I dare him tooo try

SKammeraad 02-23-2015 12:05 PM

thats sucks.. out the guy. he is just playing you in hopes you either give up or can seek no recourse

j21black 02-23-2015 12:27 PM


Originally Posted by 1989mach1 (Post 4269136)
he is doing good but not out of the woods yet that is why I haven't shipped the stuff yet..... im saying with the puppy to make shire he is ok I will get your parts out buy the end of the year.....


this dude needs an a$$ beating and teach him a lesion.... some one on here is in his back yard and needs to take care of this.

Good deal....I sure do like puppies...

tommymonza 02-23-2015 02:29 PM

Is this another Hypothetical situation ?:evilb:

brian41 02-23-2015 03:20 PM

If I don't have the items when UPS comes tomorrow I will post his info...I still do not even have the tracking number he promised and as of this morning he had not been on OSO since the evening of 18th.

1989mach1 02-23-2015 04:31 PM

Don't go skimpy on the info eather with just the name on here. I think it needs to be every thing. Phone number full name and screen name. Thats what I would do...home address to fu ck it let all of us help take this guy down. I will blow this d bags phone up I have time....

mike tkach 02-23-2015 04:48 PM

go steal the puppy,that will pizz him off,lol.

akaboatman 02-23-2015 05:32 PM

I'm not sure but I think he's still paying on a loan on the CC. I wonder if the bank has a serial # on the boat for the loan? Of corse it may be payed off by now.

pq260ho496 02-23-2015 07:14 PM

I hope you get your parts. People that do this need to be hung by their teabags!!!!!!


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