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Jupiter Sunsation 03-08-2011 09:27 AM


Originally Posted by RunninHotRacing163.1 (Post 3345140)

Jupiter aka Culumbo dont quit your day job :D:lolhit:

Hey RHR you can see I edited my post, no need to steer the thread the wrong way. :drink:

RunninHotRacing163.1 03-08-2011 09:31 AM


Originally Posted by Jupiter Sunsation (Post 3345143)
Hey RHR you can see I edited my post, no need to steer the thread the wrong way. :drink:



no steering just DONT QUIT YOUR DAY JOB !!!!!:lolhit:


Randy/Wild hope things all work themselves out :drink:

Wild 03-08-2011 09:41 AM


Originally Posted by BobbyB (Post 3345117)
It is pretty crappy who did this. I have seen this trailer in person and it is pretty messed up.
Randy should we post pics of it?

The trailer is fine structurally, id put speedy on it right now and haul it with only 5 out of 6 good axles, its all cosmetic and some mechanical stuff, but it all adds up

cdowns 03-08-2011 09:41 AM

[QUOTE=RunninHotRacing163.1;3345140]

Originally Posted by Jupiter Sunsation (Post 3344828)
Randy I don't know you personally but I have never seen anything you have owned that wasn't perfect so I find it hard to believe that your tilt trailer was in bad shape.

No way should you be on the hook for anything and the trailer should be returned to you in the condition it was taken.

I am no Columbo but you have an MTI, your trailer therefore fits an MTI and there is only ONE out of state dealer that sells MTI's and would want to show off your trailer in Miami. :eekdrop:That dealer needs to do the right thing and fix the trailer or atleast offer your $7500 for the rental fee:eek:



Jupiter aka Culumbo dont quit your day job :D:lolhit:

He's not talking about PIER57..... Read his post... We have our own tilt trailers, But if we did use his and messed it up, You can bet your AZZ, Woods would bring it back better than new.:drink: So keep digging boys you'll figure out who it is.:grinser010:

Wally 03-08-2011 09:47 AM


Originally Posted by buck183 (Post 3344926)
Randy, for the record I think highly of you and personally think you of all people don't deserve this.

A couple years ago a very generous member here offered me one of his boats for the weekend to enjoy. Said it was sitting there and I could take it with no worries. I was very honored that he even offered. I didn't hesitate to turn down his offer for one simple reason. If a drive or motor went while I was operating the boat there was no way I could possibly afford to repair it for him. In my opinion I couldn't afford to borrow it from him regardless of his generosity.

I'm thinking your borrower was raised a little differently than some of us were.

Buck

+2!

Hell even when borrow my dads caddy for a night out on the town with my wife cause the truck is too big to be downtown i return it washed, waxed and with a full tank of gas! And i can say that all my friends are the same way in regards to eachothers property. If my buddy from Tampa fly's in for the weeknd and needs to borrow my truck i throw the keys and let him know where the ins card is...i dont have to worry about the truck coming back any less then the way it left.

wrinkleface 03-08-2011 09:48 AM


Originally Posted by fireguy (Post 3344817)
"So my question is, should i just bend over and pay for it or what, what would you do?"

Hell no!!!

I agree with mwinn1. Anytime i have borrowed anything I have returned it in the same or better condition. I have also been burned by people borrowing my stuff. Which, is why I no longer loan hardly anything to anyone, and I am more than a little hesitant to borrow anything.

The trailer was their responsibility while it was in there care and they should be responsible for any subsequent damages. Good Luck and if they don't make it right, screw em any and every way you can.

X 100! Good luck! If I borrowed sump'n from somebody & it broke/failed on my shift, it's my responsibility!!!

Jupiter Sunsation 03-08-2011 09:50 AM


Originally Posted by cdowns (Post 3345162)

He's not talking about PIER57..... Read his post... We have our own tilt trailers, But if we did use his and messed it up, You can bet your AZZ, Woods would bring it back better than new.:drink: So keep digging boys you'll figure out who it is.:grinser010:

Note my original post was edited...... RHR was stirring the pot! :evilb:

sunsation96 03-08-2011 09:52 AM

I borrowed a members trailer last year to pick up my new boat in LOTO, this member keeps his stuff in beyond perfect condition as do I. I haul it there and back no issues, then I am going to my parents and I blow a tire, it in turn took out the tail light. I repalced the whole tail light and replaced the tire washed and waxed the trailer and polished the tires and wheels and returned it. The owner tried to give me half the money for the tire and tail light I said are you kidding me? There is no way I am taking money from you. If anyhting I owe you! Point is you use it you repair it.

BobbyB 03-08-2011 10:06 AM


Originally Posted by Wild (Post 3345160)
The trailer is fine structurally, id put speedy on it right now and haul it with only 5 out of 6 good axles, its all cosmetic and some mechanical stuff, but it all adds up

Yes i know its fine. I saw it when i was there last month and have a few pics on my phone of the problems.

baywatch 03-08-2011 10:08 AM

That sucks!! Hopefully they make it right because it is a small world!!

kap328 03-08-2011 10:23 AM


Originally Posted by 36Tango (Post 3345091)
A well know out of state used boat sales company asks to borrow your tilt trailer (free of charge) for an upcoming event to show off a little, you hesitate but eventually say yes because you are a nice guy and think it would be cool. company takes trailer hauls it from MO to FL with boat on it and back empty.

That was very nice of you to loan it to whomever it was that needed it. The generosity of the boating community can be pretty amazing at times.
Trailer comes back with a flat spare and flat spot on the existing tire still on the trailer with a locked up break and a busted axle and a bent up fender. My guy hooks up to it, drives less than 100 miles and the axle and wheel come flying off. Price to fix trailer is $7500. Company says they will pay for a new tire and thats it, its not their fault. WHAT

Did your guy discuss the busted up stuff with them before he hooked up to it, or was the only visible problem at the time was the tires? If the stuff was not busted, and your guy hooked up and pulled it, it may be pretty tough to hang it on the folks that borrowed it.
OK, i get it, maybe if i would have been hauling the boat the same thing would have happened, maybe not, how long did they pull the empty trailer with a locked up break? Who nows the real deal, i dont.

You may never know, and you may drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out

So my question is, should i just bend over and pay for it or what, what would you do?

It could be argued that all of this would have happened anyway. It seems like a good resolution would be to offer to split the cost of repairs with the folks that borrowed the trailer. They will just need to look at it as being $3750 worth of rental on a high dollar trailer. Now if the axle would have let loose while they were actually towing it, then I would say that it would be all on them.

If there is a silver lining to all of this, at least Speedy was not on the trailer at the time. I have seen pics of tires/axles that have blown out and done some pretty major damage to the boat on the trailer. Not much consolation under the circumstances, but you may have dodged a bigger bullet.
Imagine your driver calling you 1/2 way between home and Havasu and telling you the bad news.


Whatever happens, good luck with it, as it is never a good situation.


Comment:

The above post is right on point and answers the question. I would add some additional comments on loaning items to people.

First and foremost, have an agreement before the item is loaned on what happens if any damage occurs. Even if your the party borrowing stuff. For example, a person wants to borrow a propeller I say if you drop it ding it etc... you bought it.... agreed!.... if not then don't borrow it.

Same goes for the trailer discuss before hand if anything is damaged on trailer the person borrowing agrees to pay for it. As for a high dollar tilt trailer this procedure should be a given protocol. This allows you to be a nice guy and remain protected in what is expected between both parties.

One of the first concerns for me would be insurance coverage if someone plows into the trailer who's policy is going to pay. Did this person add the trailer as additionally insured on their policy etc....

As stated earlier I would offer a compromise witth the other party on splitting the cost of repair. If they refuse then you must pay for repair or submit the claim to your carrier which ever you prefer.

KAP

P.S. Agreements first...another example which comes up often.... is friend asks me to drive his boat back to marina and he is going by land. I say if anything breaks on this boat it is not my responsibility "do you understand" his answer Yes! If No, then guess what hot rod your on your own.

P.P.S. If you follow everyones position on you pay for it if you borrow it.... where does it end and almost always creates a mess both financially and with friendships:).

thirdchildhood 03-08-2011 11:31 AM

[QUOTE=cdowns;3345162][QUOTE=RunninHotRacing163.1;3345140]

He's not talking about PIER57..... Read his post... We have our own tilt trailers, But if we did use his and messed it up, You can bet your AZZ, Woods would bring it back better than new.:drink: So keep digging boys you'll figure out who it is.:grinser010:[/QUOTE

#### yes he would!

TexomaPowerboater 03-08-2011 11:37 AM

Buck up and pay. You need formalities to go after them (contract, terms, pre inspection, post inspection). You should of had everything in writing and if you did not, then your stuck paying for it. Really not an ethical delima.........on your side anyway.

OldSchool 03-08-2011 11:49 AM


Originally Posted by buck183 (Post 3344926)
Randy, for the record I think highly of you and personally think you of all people don't deserve this.

A couple years ago a very generous member here offered me one of his boats for the weekend to enjoy. Said it was sitting there and I could take it with no worries. I was very honored that he even offered. I didn't hesitate to turn down his offer for one simple reason. If a drive or motor went while I was operating the boat there was no way I could possibly afford to repair it for him. In my opinion I couldn't afford to borrow it from him regardless of his generosity.

I'm thinking your borrower was raised a little differently than some of us were.

Buck

+100

Let's face it, one of the biggest problems with this hobby that we all love is that it seems to be a magnet that attracts phucking azzholes. That pizzes me off. :(

NASCAT 03-08-2011 12:35 PM


Originally Posted by mwinn1 (Post 3344809)
The borrower should bring it back in the same or BETTER condition than when they took the trailer. If a person is not willing to accept the responsibility they shouldn't ask. However, your situation is probably the norm.

+1 not to mention the fact that even though it might have been a 1 in a million chance the borrower needed to be prepared to the entire trailer it been destroyed durring the time it was in their possession. A legit business has insurance & to my knowledge the tow vehicle insurance covers the trailer behind regardless of ownership.

Personally I would have called the owner the second I got a flat to let them know and ask them how they'd like me to handle it.

Great friendships & business to business relationships take time to build but one can certainly flush one down the toilet in a hurry but not taking responsibilities for their own actions!

Sad!!

RunninHotRacing163.1 03-08-2011 12:51 PM

[QUOTE=thirdchildhood;3345257][QUOTE=cdowns;3345162]

Originally Posted by RunninHotRacing163.1 (Post 3345140)

He's not talking about PIER57..... Read his post... We have our own tilt trailers, But if we did use his and messed it up, You can bet your AZZ, Woods would bring it back better than new.:drink: So keep digging boys you'll figure out who it is.:grinser010:[/QUOTE

#### yes he would!



I know that and you know that now take a Midol and get back under the porch, we'll bang on your food bowl if we need ya :D:kiss:

RunninHotRacing163.1 03-08-2011 01:05 PM


Originally Posted by Jupiter Sunsation (Post 3344861)
10-4.......that leaves only one other person trying to sell a lot of cats.... :eek:



C'mon now Buttmunch who's STIRRIN THE POT ????? :evilb:

Randy/Wild sorry for the Hijack :drink:

US1 Fountain 03-08-2011 01:07 PM

Kentucky?

Wobble 03-08-2011 01:16 PM

I would contact my insurance agent and give them as much information as I could gather about the vehicle and owner that was towing your trailer when the damage occured and let them sort it out.

That's what you are paying for.

wjb21ndtown 03-08-2011 01:29 PM


Originally Posted by TexomaPowerboater (Post 3345263)
Buck up and pay. You need formalities to go after them (contract, terms, pre inspection, post inspection). You should of had everything in writing and if you did not, then your stuck paying for it. Really not an ethical delima.........on your side anyway.

That's not true. When you entrust someone with your property they have a duty care and a responsibility over that property.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bailment

Also, there is something called a "quasi-contract" or a contract in law that could impose penalties on the defendant in court for their wrongful actions.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quasi-contract

Velocity Vector 03-08-2011 01:31 PM

I borrowed a pickup once when I was in a bind, worked out of it for a month. The tires were slick when I borrowed it, the transmission went out the last 3 days I was borrowing it. I brought it back with 4 new buckshot mudders and a new transmission. The guy was shocked I did to it what I did. He told me if he has anything I ever needed just come get it from now on. I felt real good bringing his truck back to him.

the bear 03-08-2011 02:29 PM

Randy once you out them the bad publicity will cost them a lot more in the long run.....and it will probably save some others more than that warning them of this persons ethics!

They should pay up...At least they should offer!

Skullkrusher 03-08-2011 02:44 PM

Don't know the name of this business but I know everything I need to about the owner:

He has no morals.

He doesn't value the friendship of the man who did him this favor.

He must not believe that the value of his good name is worth at least 7500 bucks.

In short he is a no good piss ant motherf*****.!!

Drock78 03-08-2011 02:58 PM

Definitely not the guy id want to buy a $700,000 cat from. As soon as something happened ....sorry not my problem

36Tango 03-08-2011 03:03 PM


Originally Posted by Velocity Vector (Post 3345381)
I borrowed a pickup once when I was in a bind, worked out of it for a month. The tires were slick when I borrowed it, the transmission went out the last 3 days I was borrowing it. I brought it back with 4 new buckshot mudders and a new transmission. The guy was shocked I did to it what I did. He told me if he has anything I ever needed just come get it from now on. I felt real good bringing his truck back to him.

It sounds like the real damage happened after the trailer was returned and was driving down the road. Would if you would have returned the truck, and then sometime after that the transmission would have gone bad. Would you still have fixed it? I dont know you, but I kind of doubt it.

It is possible that two very good people with the right intentions can see things from different perspectives. It does not make one right and the other wrong at all, as they both can be right from thier perspective. Good people can agree to disagree and still respect each other.

If the damage occured when under the control of the guy that borrowed it, it would be a slam dunk decision. Since teh majority of the damage happened after control was handed over, it gets to be pretty gray. With the assumption that both are good people (Wild would not have lent it out if he thought any different, I would assume), I bet that they work it out. The right answer to most conflicts, whatever it is, is usually somewhere in the middle. Sometimes the hardest thing to overcome, even more than money, is principal, and I would hate to see a friendship end over principal.

Just my two cents, and well overpriced at that!

Uncle Dave 03-08-2011 03:36 PM

No need to over complicate this.

Its all very simple and sportsman like.

Return loaned things in a state better or equal to what you borrowed them in along with a thank you note and at minimum bottle of Jack - and your credit stays good.

Sounds to me like your generosity was taken advantage of and Id give the guy 1 week to make good before you out his douchebaggery on OSO.

Hes hosed you already unless he has some possible reason which at this stage seems unlikely. YOu dont have anything more to lose but he does.

Bummer.







Uncle Dave

Back4More 03-08-2011 05:05 PM

That just sucks...Hope it works out for the better.
Your a better man than I. I don't think I would have let someone borrow my trailer.

Uncle Dave 03-08-2011 05:23 PM


Originally Posted by Back4More (Post 3345557)
That just sucks...Hope it works out for the better.
Your a better man than I. I don't think I would have let someone borrow my trailer.

I would loan someone my trailer.

I loan and borrow high end things all the time.

I loan one set of toys for another.

I loaned out my toy-hauler and 2 quads and pickup for a weekend, and in exchange I borrowed a deck-boat from a friend for a weekend so I could "show up" at a kids birthday party with enough boating seats for 15 people.

For me 99% of the time it works out because its reciprocal. I return things in better shape than when I borrow them and so do my real friends and long time business acquaintances.

Even with these friends there is a no "first time" policy.

the list is very short though and with that few I have had -0- problems

(note I didnt say nothing ever needed fixing I said I had no problems. )

Part of being sportsmanlike is that if your loaned goodie gets broken you cant whine at all if it ultimately gets fixed properly.

no whiney bee-othches

Uncle Dave

TexomaPowerboater 03-08-2011 05:49 PM


Originally Posted by wjb21ndtown (Post 3345378)
That's not true. When you entrust someone with your property they have a duty care and a responsibility over that property.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bailment

Also, there is something called a "quasi-contract" or a contract in law that could impose penalties on the defendant in court for their wrongful actions.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quasi-contract

Don't you practice law, or are a law student? Didn't they teach you that the only thing that is black in white in law is the paper its printed on?

Velocity Vector 03-08-2011 06:33 PM


Originally Posted by Uncle Dave (Post 3345569)
I would loan someone my trailer.

I loan and borrow high end things all the time.

I loan one set of toys for another.

I loaned out my toy-hauler and 2 quads and pickup for a weekend, and in exchange I borrowed a deck-boat from a friend for a weekend so I could "show up" at a kids birthday party with enough boating seats for 15 people.

For me 99% of the time it works out because its reciprocal. I return things in better shape than when I borrow them and so do my real friends and long time business acquaintances.

Even with these friends there is a no "first time" policy.

the list is very short though and with that few I have had -0- problems

(note I didnt say nothing ever needed fixing I said I had no problems. )

Part of being sportsmanlike is that if your loaned goodie gets broken you cant whine at all if it ultimately gets fixed properly.

no whiney bee-othches

Uncle Dave

Good point Unc, When we going to swap old ladies for a weekend? Take a few video's and put them on the hunting chanel or wild world of sports. :lolhit:

WeaponX 03-08-2011 06:55 PM


Originally Posted by getchasum111 (Post 3345089)
sounds like that dip $hit from LOTO that has a 40 Skater huh

I know of five 40 Skaters who are you talking to?? I'll send them your way.

Read the first post

"A well know out of state used boat sales company asks to borrow your tilt trailer"

It might help you.

RunninHotRacing163.1 03-08-2011 07:00 PM


Originally Posted by Uncle Dave (Post 3345569)
I would loan someone my trailer.

I loan and borrow high end things all the time.

I loan one set of toys for another.

I loaned out my toy-hauler and 2 quads and pickup for a weekend, and in exchange I borrowed a deck-boat from a friend for a weekend so I could "show up" at a kids birthday party with enough boating seats for 15 people.

For me 99% of the time it works out because its reciprocal. I return things in better shape than when I borrow them and so do my real friends and long time business acquaintances.

Even with these friends there is a no "first time" policy.

the list is very short though and with that few I have had -0- problems

(note I didnt say nothing ever needed fixing I said I had no problems. )

Part of being sportsmanlike is that if your loaned goodie gets broken you cant whine at all if it ultimately gets fixed properly.

no whiney bee-othches

Uncle Dave



good minds thing alike :ernaehrung004::ernaehrung004:

baywatch 03-08-2011 07:32 PM


Originally Posted by the bear (Post 3345432)
Randy once you out them the bad publicity will cost them a lot more in the long run.....and it will probably save some others more than that warning them of this persons ethics!

They should pay up...At least they should offer!

Bingo, nothing more valuable then your reputation.

I glanced through the un-mentioned dealers website today and when you see the boats he has listed the whole deboggle becomes even more rediculous to think that he borrowed a trailer (didn't even rent) then it ends up all jacked up and not even an attempt to make it right on his part?
At least we can count on Karma.

PARADISE ISLAND 03-08-2011 07:38 PM

Return in original condition friend or not you guys should put it in writing break it you buy it!bikes,cars,boats,trailers if you are that nice to lend it they should have no problem signing an agreement!just my 02

LV 03-08-2011 07:46 PM

Send him a bill, if he doesnt pay it, than call them out ! F%%^&cking people!

punkinhead 03-08-2011 08:11 PM

What ever happened to"You break it you bought it"?

MES 03-08-2011 08:25 PM

There is no need to go into great detail in here, but basically someone we
considered a friend called and wanted to know if he could borrow one of PBB's tilt trailers to be able to make it south in November for the races. They couldn't make it with a flat because of the time frame and permits. I called Wild and asked his thoughts and he was very hesistant because of
some past boat deal, but he was in if I was. PBB transported the other tilt over to pick up Speedy, they loaded and headed back to Loto. Randy Wild did buy the silver tilt last year from PBB, but PBB still owns over 50% of it, carries all the insurance, and licensing. So when someone calls and needs a huge favor you try to make it happen. The only thing that was asked was to not take the PBB stickers off, deliver it to PBB at Loto when done and have it back by December 2, 2011 because it was headed somewhere on Dec 5. Was not delivered back to MO till the night of Dec 16th and didn't even bring it to Loto. The trailer was a joke. We have never heard a single word out of the dealer. Hey Wild, rumor at Loto is his crew chief is based here........ I would think we could get a t-shirt or two out of the deal!

SpeedDoc 03-09-2011 06:06 AM

I'm sure this person will be at the next poker run or offshore race, I'd wait to see him out at dinner with his "Posse" and I'd walk over and punch him right in the face, then when he fell out of his chair I'd stomp on his neck while someone in his Posse was writing my check! It's not like he'd be suprised it happened...... D Bag...

Wild 03-09-2011 07:04 AM


Originally Posted by MES (Post 3345746)
Hey Wild, rumor at Loto is his crew chief is based here........ I would think we could get a t-shirt or two out of the deal!

HA, and he even admits they drove it over "TONS" of curbs because its so long, great stuff :angry-smiley-038:

36Tango 03-09-2011 08:09 AM


Originally Posted by Wild (Post 3345945)
HA, and he even admits they drove it over "TONS" of curbs because its so long, great stuff :angry-smiley-038:

Knowing that, I'd reverse my earlier opinion about splitting the cost. "Tons" of curbs can cause "tons" of damage, some of which cannot be seen until later. Good luck with getting them to pay up. If I were a betting man, I would venture to guess that they will. One certainty, if they had any smarts, they would come to an agreement with you as they not want to be crushed by the "OSO Wave", that will hit them if you decide to identify who they are.

Maybe make them aware of this thread, if they are not already.


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