Tragedy
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Some more pics thru the years of my Wife, Life Partner, Business Partner, Lover and best friend.





The last picture was with Michelle (left) her dog Andre and twin Mareesa. Their dog Andre had been stolen and her Mom and Dad put this pic of the twins and Andre in the local paper asking the thief to PLEASE return Andre to two heart broken little gifrls. Miraculously...Andre appeared on their front porch the next morning with a note that said "I am so sorry".
I love you forever Baby Girl.





The last picture was with Michelle (left) her dog Andre and twin Mareesa. Their dog Andre had been stolen and her Mom and Dad put this pic of the twins and Andre in the local paper asking the thief to PLEASE return Andre to two heart broken little gifrls. Miraculously...Andre appeared on their front porch the next morning with a note that said "I am so sorry".
I love you forever Baby Girl.
Last edited by sprink58; 02-12-2014 at 06:19 PM.
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when you choose to love someone and spend your life with them, you are sentencing yourself or them to having to deal with losing the other one. there is no good ending. there are bad ones and worse ones. she didn't have to go down hill for a year while some debilitating disease tore her apart slowly. and you two didn't have to stare at that impending end and have go on with life while pretending it was gonna be ok. she curled up next to her man the other night... and just didn't have to worry anymore. you didn't get to say goodbye to each other, but she didn't have to suffer. that should be worth something to you. she didn't miss the dance, but she got to miss the pain. if this is out of line I apologize. Derek.
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john, this is so sad, the song brought tears thinking of going thru this, i lost my dad in may of 2013. its hard to lose anyone especially a wife, parent, or worse a child, god bless you and we are all thinking of you. also shes is beautiful. not was is cause theres a day when you will see her again, but this time it will be for eternity.
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No...no I think you are spot on. We were mature adults when we made the choices we made. I feel for certain I gave her more of a life than she would have had without me. There are very few guys that would roll the dice on MS...there are those that do as well as other diseases....women also that stick with their men. The MS forum is full of women whose spouses bailed on them. MS is predominantly a disease that preys on women 2:1 over men...no one knows why...it is what it is. I learned a lot about it in the past 20 years. It is one of the most under diagnosed diseases. There are many that have it and don't know it...then there are those that don't want to know which is a fools game. With modern medecine and treatment a resonably normal life can be expected....but only if you catch it early.
We caught it early and fought it...had the movers not stolen her MS Beta Seron Medecine thinking it was something else this probably would not have happened...it took me a week to get a refil because of the special nature of the drug. I am bitter and will have my day through the legal system. In the meantime...I deal with the grief and will always miss my baby. We had 21 good years and I am thankful for that. My emotions control me and that's normal I have been told since it has only been ten days.
I am more than grateful to all of you for your kind words and support in this the worst experience of my life.
We caught it early and fought it...had the movers not stolen her MS Beta Seron Medecine thinking it was something else this probably would not have happened...it took me a week to get a refil because of the special nature of the drug. I am bitter and will have my day through the legal system. In the meantime...I deal with the grief and will always miss my baby. We had 21 good years and I am thankful for that. My emotions control me and that's normal I have been told since it has only been ten days.
I am more than grateful to all of you for your kind words and support in this the worst experience of my life.
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I miss my Michelle on Valentines Day...very tough.
Just know I am thinking of you. I will be out on the 255 tomorrow...a beautiful South Florida Winter Day...you will be on my mind...won't be the same without you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ru1M6dY0cY
Just know I am thinking of you. I will be out on the 255 tomorrow...a beautiful South Florida Winter Day...you will be on my mind...won't be the same without you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ru1M6dY0cY
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Sprink, sorry for your tragic loss, she is a beautiful woman that will always be there with you no matter where you go. Just the thought of losing my First Mate, my best friend is at the very least sobering. Hang in there friend!
Rick
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