welll, i did what spped girl suggested, i'll try anything- i am so pissed at myself i clearly remember putting my hands on it . might try a hypnotist. my house just didn't eat it. i think i will invent a "kick myself in the ass machine"

Been done. It's called a "wife".

not married YET

First of all:

Be happy you had money to hide!

Second of all:

It may be missing becasue your wife found it! look around for unusually expensive shoes or handbags

Third:

Everytime I lose something I find it in the last place I look!

Everytime I lose something I find it in the last place I look

Well yeah, I dont think you are going to find it in the 2nd to last place you look.

Here, don't think about for a few days and hit it again. Your dwelling too much right now. Kind of like when you forget what you're gonna say and then it comes back to ya. TOO OLD knows how that goes

Well.... I was just going to say the wife took it.... but you can wait for that to happen on it's own.... You won't need to worry about hiding money when you get married.... your wife will just spend it before you get a chance to withdraw it from the account.......

Are you starting to see a common thread in the comments about wives?.................

SHE HAS HER OWN MONEY

I always give him back the money I find in his pants when I do laundry. Why not? He always spends it on me anyway. I'm a spoiled little brat.

I have found that I have to be anal about my placement of "things". Every single time I hide something "right here where I'll be sure to find it" it disappears for weeks and I drive myself crazy looking for it.

Look in places that you always go, desk drawers, dressers drawers and don't just shuffle through all the stuff in there. Remove it ALL. Go through it piece by piece and put it back neatly. Now you have thoroughly ruled out a drawer and can move on, plus you've cleaned it out. If you hid it in en envelope, make sure it didn't accidentlly get stuffed into other mail, a magazine, etc. Check in ALL of your coats, check your underwear/sock drawer, and the freezer, glove box of your car, your briefcase, where you keep your bills, and don't forget to go through that big old pile of mail you have on top of the fridge (or whereever).

Good luck!

and....LOL at it will be in the last place I look. I always come back with - you'd be a total dumba$$ to keep looking after you found it now wouldn't you? Some get it, others don't.