how do i know if they are adjusted right. the center prop has nicked both outter drives when they are trimmed up at idle. when i look at them they dont look even.

how about some pictures.

The boats in the water. Should they hit each other trimmed all the way up and the wheel turn all the way

First off I wouldn't cut the wheel all the way while trimmed up,you are going to hit the k-planes,next check to see that all the trim pumps are running in sequence.

Yes they seem to be I hold the out button until they stop so I don't think there uneven I was wondering if the tie bars were out of adjustment. When I look at them the port outdrive looks straight and the center and starboard look turned not a lot but noticeable